
Lead Between the Lines: The Unwritten Rules of Leadership & Power
Welcome to Lead Between the Lines, the podcast where we expose the unspoken truths and hidden strategies that fuel real power and lasting leadership. I’m Lois St. Germaine, your guide into the sophisticated, no-BS arena of authentic influence. This space is designed for the accomplished woman who’s ready to play a bolder, deeper game—who wants more than surface-level success and is ready to embrace the true essence of what it means to lead.
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Lead Between the Lines: The Unwritten Rules of Leadership & Power
The Race to Irrelevance: Today’s Crisis in Modern Leadership
In this gripping episode, "Racing to Irrelevance: The Crisis in Modern Leadership," we dive deep into the heart of today's leadership crisis. Discover why society's obsession with 'doing' over 'being' is steering us toward a race to the bottom, and why true leadership means more than just meeting expectations.
Join us as we explore the crucial role of personal responsibility in leadership, challenge the normalization of mediocrity, and discuss how aspiring entrepreneurs can thrive by embracing true self-leadership.
This episode is a wake-up call to all who aspire to lead effectively and influence profoundly in a world that too often rewards the minimum over the exceptional.
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Welcome. To today's episode, titled racing to irrelevance the crisis in modern leadership. Today, we're diving deep into a conscientious debate that touches the core of our professional lives. Why is modern leadership faltering and what can we do about this downward spiral spiral to. Irrelevance. So let's start off by looking at. Um, the cultural obsession of doing. Right. Our world glorifies the hustle. From the cradle to the cubicle. The question. What do you want to do when you grow up? Is branded into our consciousness. But what if this is the wrong question? What if it's steering us all towards the cliff of burnout, dullness and dissatisfaction. We live in a culture where your value is measured by your productivity, not by your personal growth or integrity. It's a relentless pursuit of more, more accolades, more hours, more milestones, more everything. And it's failing us spectacularly. This obsession with doing over being isn't just inefficient. It's a straight path to becoming irrelevant in a world that increasingly values. Authenticity and integrity over mere output. So I really feel like we're in this leadership conundrum. And I want to talk about that for a little bit. So let's dive into this quagmire, if you will. We often fall into the trap of promoting individuals based purely on the milestones. They've checked off. Uh, stark resume centric, worldview. But quoting the visionary, Seth Godin. You are not your resume. You are your work, meaning your life's work, who you are. And this isn't just about the tasks you complete it's about who you are in the process of doing those tasks. Because we are not merely content. We are context. And it's. A fundamental misstep to confuse a list of achievements with true leadership capability. Uh, resume may tell you what someone has done, but it doesn't reveal how they've done it or who they were in those moments. Did they lead with integrity? Did they elevate those around them? Did they remain true to their values? None of these questions. Get answered. In a resume. And this insight leads us to a provocative thought. Promoting based on past achievements alone is like judging a book by its table of contents rather than its chapters. Effective leadership, demands, depth, character, empathy, resilience. These qualities, aren't just nice to haves. They are essential for sustainable success. Consider the leaders who inspire us long after they've left the room. Their impact. Isn't just built on the volume of their accomplishments, but on the strength of their presence, the consistency of their character. When we prioritize achievements over these qualities, we get leaders who know how to race, but don't know how to sustain the pace. Or inspire their teams all the way to and beyond the finish line. And it's crucial then to recalibrate our leadership lenses. To look beyond the bullet points of what has been done to focus on a narrative of who is doing it. It's about embracing a leadership paradigm. That values being as much as doing. It's about understanding that the true measure of a leader is not just in the actions they undertake, but in the context in which those actions are performed. Because who you are is as important. As what you do. By promoting based on achievements without considering character. Organizations risk elevating leaders who are at Billy quipped. For sustainable success. Hastening their race towards irrelevance. Now it's not just. A company's responsibility to. Pick the right leaders or build leaders. It's also our own personal responsibility. To not only lead ourselves, but to inspire those around us. So how's we dissect the Intercon. Intricacies of leadership. It's imperative to extend the dialogue beyond those at the helm. Leadership is not solely the province of the designated view. It's a mantle. Every professional should drape over their shoulders. And this brings us to a crucial, often overlooked aspect. Personal responsibility, personal leadership. In today's professional landscape, there's a pervasive trend to disassociate effort from outcomes. And we hear it all the time. I did my best. But let's be brutally honest since when has trying then enough. In a real world and especially in business results matter, it's not just about doing it's about achieving. We seem to be. Chasing this participation ribbon in the corporate arena. It's as if we expect applause for Mueller, merely showing up for doing the bare minimum. Remember. Being a tiled and feeling the surge of pride. When your parents clapped, as you tied your shoes. That longing for validation doesn't disappear. It evolves. It follows us into our boardrooms and office space. This. And this is where we must challenge ourselves and our teams. Are we content with mere participation? Or are we striving for mastery? The responsibility for leading, whether it's a project, a team, or a personal career trajectory. Lies with each individual. Not just those with leader in their title. It's high time that we recalibrate our professional ethos. The crux of personal responsibility in business is not just about fulfilling tasks, but owning the outcomes. It's about shifting from a mindset of, I tried my best to, I will make it happen. It's about moving from passive Dissipation to active creation. And let's not forget. Leadership is as much about character as it is about competence. A true leader owns the results regardless of the scale of their role. They don't seek validation for tasks that they're expected to perform. They seek to exceed expectations. To forge paths where none existed and to inspire, not just through words, but through tangible achievements. So. If you find yourself waiting for that proverbial clap every time you complete a task, ask yourself, am I leading in this moment? Am I taking responsibility, not just for my actions, but for the results they yield. It's not about what you do. It's about the impact that you create. Without personal responsibility, leaders and professionals alike contribute to a culture of mediocrity. Edging closer to, to irrelevance. As they fail to stand out in a meaningful way. So let's look at how we as a society and especially in the corporate world. How have normalized mediocrity. And what the consequence of that complacency is. So having peeled back the layers. On personal responsibility and leadership, it's crucial to explore a troubling by-product of our participation ribbon culture mediocrity. This isn't just about individual performances. It's about the systematic normalization of mediocrity that seeps into every crevice crevice of our. Organizations, our life careers, all of it. Right. And ultimately our society. And it's more than just under performance. It's a race to the bottom. When validation for mere participation becomes the norm. What, what happens to excellence? It gets sidelined. This mediocrity epidemic is not a minor nuisance. It's a pervasive force. That dilutes innovation, stifles growth, and capsizes the potential of brilliant minds. Who conform rather than Xcel. Think about it. When was the last time that you truly pushed beyond your limits at work? Or in any goal that you're trying to achieve? Not just encouraged. To meet the IX. The uh, expectations, but to blow them out of the water. For many, it's hard to recall. And that's because the bar is often set just within reach, comfortable unthreatening. It's a safe play. But at what cost. This culture of comfort leads to a stagnant pool of unchanged potential. It's as if we're, if we collectively decided that good enough is good enough. But here's the kicker. Good enough, never leads to breakthroughs. Good enough, never disrupts industries. Good enough, never changes the world. We're not just talking about pushing for more, for the sake of more we're advocating for a Renaissance of rigor, ever, a Bible of the pursuit of excellence. It's about challenging each other to rise, not just to the occasion, but above it. Crafting a legacy of exceptionalism that can stand the test of time. The antidote. To mediocrity is not merely hard work. It's meaningful work. That's tied to a higher vision. It's about leadership at every level, taking ownership of not just what they do. But how they inspire others to do the same. This is the kind of leadership that transforms good enough. Into great. So as you reflect on your own role, whether you're a CEO manager team member, ask yourself, Am I contributing to the culture of mediocrity. Or am I striving to shatter it? Am I setting the bar higher for myself and for those around me, And when we talk about setting the bar, we often think about the high bar, right? The ceiling. And I'm what I'm asking you to do. And this is set your baseline bar higher. Raise that bottom bar. So that you don't accept anything less than your best effort than excellence than, um, Worrying more about who you're being, then what you're doing. That's the bar that needs to raise. It's not necessarily the top bar. It's the bottom bar. This normalization of mediocrity, isn't just a minor setback. It's a direct ticket to irrelevance in a competitive ever evolving global marketplace. And it's not just in the corporate world. And I want to talk about. A little bit of my experience of the transition from corporate to entrepreneurship and whether that's what you want to do or not, you can see how personal leadership and. Not settling for mediocre. So seeking out participation, ribbons, isn't the thing to do regardless of the industry that you're in. So I want to pivot towards the landscape of entrepreneurship for a minute. It's essential to underscore. Why is shift? From a participation mentality to one of proactive. Excellence. Isn't just beneficial but necessary. Entrepreneurship is not forgiving. To those accustomed to the accolades for effort alone. It's a realm where results speak louder than intentions. Many aspiring entrepreneurs, jump into this world, driven by the allure of autonomy in the glamour. Uh, seen in the success stories. However, they soon confront a stark reality. The entrepreneurial journey demands a relentless commitment to results, not just efforts. It's a terrain where mediocrity isn't just unprofitable. It's unsustainable. So consider this when you are the product. As many coaches, consultants and influencers are there's nowhere to hide. Your business depends directly on your ability to, to manage not just your business, but yourself, your emotions, your responses, your resilience. This is why so many UltiPro, uh, entrepreneurs falter. They enter the arena looking for the same validation and praise they received as employees, but entrepreneurship doesn't offer a participation ribbons. It requires a mastery of self, like no other career path. Because every setback is personal. Every failure is a direct reflection on your methods and your mindset. And let's not overlook the role of personal responsibility in this equation. As an entrepreneur, you are the ultimate leader. If something falls short. There's no higher up. To point to, and oftentimes there's no peer or staff member at a point to, when you start in this, on this journey, it's often as a solo preneur. You are it that the buck stops here, right? And this can be a really harsh wake up call for those who have not learned to own their own actions and their outcomes fully. It's no coincidence that entrepreneurs who thrive are those who cultivated a deep sense of personal responsibility. They are the ones who don't just react to the market. They anticipate and adapt. They don't seek to merely satisfy. They aim to innovate and Excel. They manage their businesses as extensions of their core values and visions, making every decision, a Testament to their commitment, to excellence. So if you're contemplating that leap into entrepreneurship ship, ask yourself. Am I ready to let go of the safety nets. Am I prepared to lead, not just a business, but a personal revolution against mediocrity. Can I handle the brutal honesty. Of the market that cares for results, not just attempts. I think you can see. Where it's imperative, no matter. What. Um, area your career lies in right. Be at the corporate world, be it entrepreneurship, whatever it is. Right. You know, maybe you're a writer. It doesn't matter. Personal. Leadership and personal responsibility is at the core of everything you do. So as we draw, uh, today's discussion to a close. One principle that towers over the rest is leadership is indispensable. And it transcends every arena. Whether you find yourself in a corporate office leading a community initiative or carving out your path in the entrepreneurial world. The essence of true leadership remains the same. It's about influence, impact and integrity. Leadership isn't confined to titles or roles. It's a way of being. It's about setting a standard for excellence that others aspire to reach. It's about making tough decisions with grace and accountability. And most importantly, it's about fostering environments where mediocrity is challenged and excellence is the norm. Remember. Every day presents a new opportunity to lead by example. With courage and with vision. Whether you're influencing one person or a thousand, your ability to embody and enact these principles of leadership determines not only your success. But also the success of those you guide. And let's not overlook the most crucial aspect of leadership. Self-leadership. True leaders, Excel in self influence. They choose their thoughts, shape their perceptions and decisively forge their identities. They aren't just leaders of others. They are first and foremost leaders of themselves. So as you move forward, consider this. Leadership is not just about guiding others to achieve goals. It's about inspiring them to transcend limitations. To innovate beyond the conventional. To achieve greatness, not just in what they do, but in who they are. And it all starts with you. How you lead yourself, how you choose to think. And who you decide to be. And to all the aspiring entrepreneurs, let this be a call to action. The entrepreneurial journey is a test of your leadership in its most unfiltered form. It demands that you not only lead a business, but also lead yourself. With unwavering commitment and resilience. Embrace this challenge as your proving ground. Where your leadership qualities are not just tested, but homed and displayed. Thank you guys for tuning in today and wherever your journey takes you remember. The world doesn't just need more leaders. It needs better leaders. Leaders who are as committed to their own growth as they are to the success of their endeavors. Leaders who understand that excellence. Isn't an outcome. It's a way of life. And that is a wrap, my friends, and I will see you next week.